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Tips to Conceive a Boy

If you already have a houseful of baby girls or naturally prefer batting practice to ballet lessons, you may be wondering is there a way to conceive a baby boy. If you have your heart set on having a boy, the good news is that the odds are in your favor as for every 49 baby girls that are conceived there are 51 boys.  Apparently, this is nature’s method  of insuring an even sex distribution as the male of the species is less hardy than the female.  

IS GENDER SELECTION UNETHICAL?

There are those that believe  that attempting to give birth to  one gender over another is wrong and we should be worried about health issues over gender . However, in a recent survey of mothers and fathers  who were either trying to conceive  or were already expecting  the findings were that nearly three fourths of all surveyed said  they had strong hopes for either a baby boy or girl. 

First time fathers  generally have hopes of having a boy  while first time mothers are hoping for a daughter .  Parents who already have a child of one gender may wish for their expected baby to be of a different gender than the one from a previous pregnancy.

TIPS TO CONCEIVE A BOY NATURALLY

If you have hopes of having a son and are planning  a baby boy nursery in blue, here are a few tips  that may (or may not) insure you have a boy.  One thing you might like to try is the Shettles Method.  Dr. Shettles suggests that male gender selection is possible because sperm containing Y chromosomes are faster  than sperm carrying the X chromosome. Taking this into consideration, his theory is that if a couple is  trying to conceive a boy they should have sexual relations  no more than 24 hours before ovulation and no later than 12 hours past the time of ovulation.  Dr. Shettles also suggests  that  depositing the sperm closer to the cervix will give the speedy  Y sperm an opportunity to get a head start in the fertilization process.

If you would like to read more tips on  how to conceive a boy using the Shettles method of gender selection you can read his book titled “How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby: The Method Best Supported by Scientific Evidence”. 

The next method, The Whelan Method, came about as a rebuttal to the previously mentioned Shettles Method .  Dr. Whelan’s belief  is that timing is everything in determining a baby’s sex  and that if you want to conceive a boy  having intercourse  early in your monthly cycle will give you a better chance of producing a male.  The doctor  has researched the numbers and has determined that her method helped couples get their boy  68% of the time.  

To get more details on when in your cycle to start attempting to conceive a boy , you can read all about it in Dr. Whelan’s  book, “Boy or Girl?”

 IS THERE A SUREFIRE WAY TO CONCEIVE A BABY BOY?

When it comes to at home gender selection , I would put my money  on science before studying  Chinese Conception charts and old wives’ tales even though there are plenty of moms and dads  who declare  they delivered a baby boy after a string of daughters  only because they took an over the counter nutritional supplement  or waited until a certain month of the year before actively trying to conceive .  But the facts are that as things stand today, other than using artificial insemination, you have about a 50/50 chance  to have a boy (or a girl) so I would wait for proof  before decorating the baby’s room  in colors right for a boy. 

 

 

 

 

 

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