When you need for the perfect double buggy for your growing family there are a few things you need to consider. Choosing the perfect twin pushchair is harder than picking a good single pram and yet the range is more limited – making the decision even trickier .

Here are the top five things to consider when you’re looking for a double pushchair :

1. Weight and Durability – pushing the extra weight of two growing babies and a larger stroller about is hard, so you really need to look for a lightweight pushchair to lessen the load and make life easier when you’re moving the buggy around. A light model that’s easy to carry will be a real lifesaver when you’re trying to juggle two children and move your buggy from car to house or on and off the bus or train. However, because of the added strain placed on a twin stroller you also need to ensure you pick a durable and hard wearing model that will withstand heavy use, otherwise you might find yourself looking for a replacement in next to no time.

2. Dimensions – a double buggy is by nature cumbersome and some models can take up a lot of space, even when collapsed. If storage space is tight, or you have a small car then it’s important to look at the folded dimensions of the twin prams available. A compact fold with a folding clip to keep the stroller folded neatly can be really useful. If you intend to use the buggy from birth look at the measurements of any carrycot units and how much additional room they will use up. There’s nothing more disappointing than choosing your perfect buggy only to discover that it doesn’t fit in your car!

Also, because of the larger size of double buggies you should consider the full width of the stroller. Crucially, any twin buggy you buy needs to fit through a normal door way, otherwise you might find yourself unable to fit into some shops and struggling to manoeuvre around tight shop aisles and streets. Even more of a nightmare, you put it together outside while trying to manage two children too. A good tip is to measure your doorways to make sure any buggy you buy fits in your house!

3. Baby Travel System – many single pushchairs are now travel system compatible as standard, but sadly the same can’t be said about double pushchairs ; not a lot can actually be used as a baby travel system. If you’ll be travelling by car a lot and need to get your children from car to buggy with as little disturbance as possible it could be worth spending a little extra on a model that can be used as a baby travel system to save disturbing your little ones when you move from car to pushchair and vice versa. Not much is worse than trying to get out and about with two miserable babies who’ve had their nap interrupted!

4. User Features – as the selection of twin pushchairs is much more limited there are less models that allow for user adjustments, like an extendable handlebar, but if you and your partner are very different heights then you should look for a model that allows you to both push the stroller comfortably. Equally, look for a buggy with soft, comfortable handles, that will be comfy to hold when pushing. And a large shopping basket and plenty of pockets can be very useful as well to give you plenty of storage space for bits and pieces when you’re on the go .

5. Type of Use – Good double buggies need to have solid suspension to deal with the weight of two children and the various paraphernalia you’ll inevitably need to take with you – not forgetting any shopping you need to carry. Three wheel, off road pushchairs are well designed to cope with these added stresses and strains because of their strong suspension and big, pneumatic tyres and have the additional bonus of being suitable for use on rough terrain, as well as about town meaning your buggy will be more versatile. Although do remember that pneumatic tyres can puncture and require ongoing maintenance.

Ultimately the comfort of your babies is the most important thing to consider when you’re looking for the perfect double buggy, but finding a pushchair that meets all of your criteria as well will make life a great deal happier!

All babies cry, but the tears can take a devastating toll. If nothing you do seems to quiet your crying baby, don’t feel anxious or overwhelmed . What if there’s something wrong and you miss it completely? What if you lose command? Take heart in your power to care for your baby — and to recognize when you’re reaching the end of your rope.

When the tears won’t stop

It’s tough to listen to your baby cry. First, cover the basics. A crying baby might just need to be fed, burped or changed. Maybe it’s time for a nap, a change in position or a session in the rocking chair. Or possibly your crying baby needs a little more — or a little less — attention. Also look for signs of sickness, such as fever, puking, or changes in eating or sleeping patterns.

You have done your best to figure out why your baby is crying but the crying continues, do your best to stay calm.

Here’s help.

• Slow down. Take a deep breath and count to 10 . Repeat a calm word or phrase, such as, “Take it easy.” Imagine yourself in a calm, relaxing place. Play soothing music in the backdrop.
• Take a break. If you’re alone, put your baby in a safe place — such as the crib or bassinet. Let your baby cry while you take a few minutes to regroup in another room. Remember you are not failing your baby nor are you neglecting him or her if you can’t stop a crying spell . Sometimes babies simply need to cry.
• Get moving. Put your baby in the stroller and take a brisk walk. You will be surprised as a change of scenery might curtail the tears . You might even buckle the baby into his or her car seat and take a brief drive.
• Convey your emotions. When you’re getting frustrated, speak up. Saying the words out loud — either to yourself or to an understanding ally or loved one — can help ease the tension.
• Ask for help. If someone is home with you, let them take over for a while . Take advantage of baby-sitting offers from trusted friends, neighbors or other close contacts. Use the time to take a nap or simply relax.
• Recognize your limits. If you’re worried about your ability to cope with a crying baby, contact your doctor, a local crisis intervention service or a mental health help line for support. Post a crisis number on the refrigerator or in another visible spot.